Many moralists in our day confuse the words “sex” and “gender.”
The word “sex” refers to our biological nature, whereas “gender” refers to our deeper sense of social intimacy.
Biology can be understood from the outside in, but gender can only be understood from the inside out.
No one is free if they are being defined by someone else. When men ask the question, “What is a woman?” the correct answer is “Stop talking for a moment and let them tell you who they are.”
I doubt any human beings can really be defined, but I am absolutely certain that a woman cannot be defined by a man.